Why You Should Avoid Social Media When Seeking Custody of Your Children?

Law Offices of Stephanie L. Mahdavi A Professional Law Corporation Child Custody

Social media has become part of daily life for many in our digital age. However, posting on social media can have serious consequences for individuals involved in child custody cases in California. What may seem like harmless posts or comments can be used against a parent in court and potentially harm their chances of obtaining custody of their children.
Here are five ways in which posting on social media can harm a parent’s chances of getting custody of their children in California:

Negative comments about the other parent

Making negative or critical comments about the other parent on social media can be seen as evidence of a hostile or contentious relationship and can be used against a parent in court. Judges in custody cases are concerned with the best interests of the child and want to ensure that any conflict between the parents is minimized. Negative comments on social media can suggest to the court that the parent is not committed to working collaboratively with the other parent.

Evidence of substance abuse or illegal activities

Posts or photos on social media that suggest a parent is abusing alcohol, using drugs or engaging in illegal activities can be used as evidence in court and can harm their chances of obtaining custody. Substance abuse or illegal activities can raise concerns about the parent’s ability to care for the child and provide a safe and stable home environment.

Photos or posts that suggest a lack of responsibility

Posts or photos that show a parent engaging in behavior that suggests a lack of responsibility or poor judgment can be used against them in court. For example, photos of a parent drinking heavily or engaging in reckless or dangerous activities can be seen as evidence of poor judgment and a lack of responsibility.

Evidence of a disregard for court orders

Posts or comments on social media that suggest a parent is disregarding court orders or the terms of a custody agreement can be used as evidence in court. For example, if a parent is ordered not to travel with the child without the other parent’s permission, posts about traveling with the child without permission can be used as evidence of a disregard for court orders.

Evidence of alienation or interference with the other parent’s relationship with the child

Posts or comments on social media that suggest a parent is alienating the child from the other parent or interfering with their relationship with the child can be used as evidence in court. This can include posts that suggest the parent is speaking negatively about the other parent or trying to limit their time with the child.

Essentially, posting on social media can have serious consequences for individuals involved in child custody cases in California. Posts or comments that suggest a parent is hostile, engaged in substance abuse or illegal activities, lacks responsibility, disregards court orders, or is alienating the child from the other parent can all be used as evidence in court and can harm a parent’s chances of obtaining custody.

To protect their chances in a custody case, it is important for parents to be mindful of what they post on social media and to avoid making comments or posting photos that can be used against them in court. If you have any questions or concerns about child custody, it is always best to seek the advice of an experienced attorney.

At the Law Offices of Stephanie L. Mahdavi, a Westlake Village child custody lawyer is prepared to help you pursue custody of your children. Get started today by contacting us online or calling us at 805-379-4550.

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