Most divorcing couples believe divorce is the end rather than a new beginning and a time for great things to happen in their lives. This is a lesson you must learn sooner or later in life. You are more than a relationship. You are a human being that deserves happiness and a fresh start. Everyone makes mistakes but the good thing is the sun comes up every day. So get up and call a Thousand Oaks divorce attorney. Many incredible things are waiting for you to receive them!
That’s right! Get ready for some quality time with yourself without having your former spouse interrupting you all the time or questioning everything you do. You can watch a movie, write a journal or go to the beach. The possibilities are endless since you will have plenty of free time to catch up on the things you truly enjoy.
The farther you are from negative people, the happier you will be. That includes your former spouse, mother-in-law, and anybody else in between that tries to make your life miserable. Let them gather solemnly and find a new target to keep them busy. Sit comfortably on your couch, make some popcorn, and watch the show from far.
Let the dishes pile up in the sink and come back home late or never come back. Play your favorite video games all night and dance to the music. The night is young. Just don’t forget that you won’t be able to do any of that when the kids are with you. Those weekends are for them to do the things they enjoy, even if that means listening to Elmo’s songs all night. You can always bake some chocolate chip cookies and become a cookie monster, the perfect excuse to indulge yourself with the forbidden treats.
Most married couples don’t have time to think about their parenting skills. There are too much tension and responsibility. Becoming the perfect spouse and parent all at once it is hard work. But now that you are free, you will have time to think about how you can improve some specific areas of your life, including how to become a better parent.
Some things shine more from far. Now that your former spouse is no longer in your life, you may learn to appreciate a distant friendship, which can be very convenient if you have kids. Keep it diplomatic and to the point. Don’t share too many details about your life and whereabouts, unless it is truly necessary. After all, it is your life and you deserve to live it to the fullest!
Don’t become like those too obsessed with themselves. Accept who you are and pursue the things that make you happy without having to ask anyone for permission. That, my friends, it is freedom. Spread your wings and soar to places you have never imagined! Better things are waiting beyond the horizon.
The path you choose is up to you. We are just here to make it all happen.